Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Patricia Rae Oltjen

Pat was born on March 16, 1936 in Clay Center, Kansas. Her parents were Raymond Dietrich Oltjen and Elsie Marie Fiechter of the Robinson, Kansas area. At the time of her birth, Ray and Elsie lived in Linn, Kansas where Ray worked for a bank. While living in Linn a brother was born ... Thayne Douglas Oltjen.

Pat's grandparents Oltjen both came to the United States from Germany ... but met in Kansas. Pat's grandfather was said to have come as far west on the train as funds allowed. He worked for farmers and saved each dollar earned and invested in land until he was quite wealthy at the time of his death. He set up his sons in farming except Raymond who contracted polio as a quite young boy which made banking a more realistic occupation. Ray's twin sister died from the disease and Ray was cared for during his long recovery by a Mrs. Foust of the Robinson area. Elsie's parents were farmers in the same area. Mr. Fiechter was of German heritage and Mrs. Fiechter had Swiss lineage.

In early years the Oltjen's moved to Florence where Ray and a partner purchased the bank at a discount to be closed for a profit. They were only there for a short time and decided to do the same thing at Cedar Vale. Elsie cried when she saw the Cedar Vale area but they both came to love the community and Ray decided to retain his holdings in the financial institution. Pat was in the second grade in Cedar Vale and attended all of her grade/high school years in the community. Pat was a popular girl and a good student and a good clarinetist in the band. She would have been a good athlete but the administrators of the school felt that females should not participate in sports. She worked at Whitney's Drug Store. Some of her better friends during her high school years were Donna Burch, Janice Sartin, and Nadine Stanhope.

After high school she attended Kansas University until she was engaged to Phil Foust of Dexter/Cedar Vale. They were married on May 29, 1955 and their first home was in Savannah, Georgia as Phil was a trombonist in an Air Force dance band. Son Graham was born in Savannah on November 07, 1956. The three Fousts moved back to Cedar Vale in November of 1957 where Phil was employed at the Cedar Vale National Bank. Vince was born on July 05, 1959 while we were living in a rental house of Dr. L. Claire Hays.

After Cedar Vale, Pat and her growing family moved to northern Kansas where Phil worked in banks prior to purchasing the Bremen State Bank of Bremen/Marysville. Prior to that, Gretchen was born on December 21, 1968 at Marysville, Kansas. During the years that she was a full time mother, Pat was proficient at a full range of activities. She was a wonderful cook, seamstress, quilter, flower gardener, landscaper, and in my opinion a most perfect wife and mother.

Later, she worked as a salesperson at Harvey's Fashions in Arkansas City where we spent some rather semi-retirement years. During this time, she honed her grandmotherly skills and enjoyed being of help to many interesting folks of the Ark City area.

The last five years we have lived in Marion, Kansas as retired folks. Her mobility has declined dramatically through the years and (like many that are fortunate to live awhile) is beginning to exhibit a reduced quality of life. She had knee replacement surgery on June 17, 2008 and is progressing remarkably well showing her strength and resolve. Pat is a fair minded individual who does not mind "telling it like it is" in her approach to human relationships.

This is a rather simple account of a remarkable person's complex life. She has known many difficulties during the years ... difficulties of which many were not aware ... but she has never shown much negativity concerning the fates that tend to occur to everyone. She is a person of whom I am very proud and have been so blessed to have spent with her ... these precious years.

9 comments:

Gary White said...

Beautiful tribute to a very special girl. Pat and T. D. were playmates early in my elementary school years and I remember Pat with real affection.

Give her my greetings.

Anonymous said...

What a nice article.

Anonymous said...

Phil - thanks for the beautiful article. I worked in the CV National Bank during my Junior and Senior years in High School and also a year after I graduated. My sister, Billy, "baby sit" with Pat and T.D. Do you remember, Pat ? Also, my grandparents, Anna and Albert, were good friends with Ray and Elsie. In fact, my grandparent's 50th wedding anniversary was in the Oltjen home.
A tribute to an undoubtedly great lady from an obvious proud husband.

Anonymous said...

Hey - what happened? I didn't intend to be "anonymous". Pat Molder

Diane Archer Bradbury said...

Phil - What a great tribute to Pat!
Congratulations! Please give Pat my regards!

Phil Foust said...

Pat, though Pat doesn't remember Billy babysitting ... she does recall many incidents with your grandparents. She remembers taking care of Albert one day while he was recovering from injuries from his fall in Independence. She also remembers having froglegs at the Pate home.

gsfoust said...

Very nice Father .... well written about the woman I most admire ~ my mother.

I love you both!

Gretchen

DFCox said...

1957 is when I started the Bluestem Animal Clinic in CV. You and Pat had a young dog (poodle?) which contracted a frustrating eczema condition. I remember treating it and bathing it with everything in the pharmacy, but to no avail. It finally developed mange in its ravaged skin and we had to euthanize it. Pat was devastated and, to tell the truth, so was I.
I think yoou were living in the house that Dr. Hays had purchased for his parents.

Phil Foust said...

Don, the dog was a mixed breed that we had purchased from the Savannah Humane Socity ... and yes you tried so hard to help Cindy.